90 days of private, 2-on-2 marriage coaching for couples who are done pretending everything is fine and ready to fight FOR their marriage instead of IN it.
No group calls. No cookie-cutter curriculum. No waiting rooms.
Just you two, and us two, rebuilding your marriage from the inside out.
A conversation, not a payment page · Limited couples at a time
The same fight. Different topic, same fight.
Or worse. No fight at all. Just two people in the same house, running separate lives, careful not to bump into each other.
You didn’t get here overnight. Nobody does.
It happened one unresolved argument at a time. One “I’m fine” at a time. One night on opposite sides of the bed at a time.
And somewhere along the way, one of you Googled something you never thought you’d Google.
If that’s you, hear this first:
We’ve been married 33 years.
Not 33 easy years. 33 real ones.
We know what it’s like to lie in bed next to someone and feel completely alone. We know what it’s like to have the same argument so many times you could both recite each other’s lines. We know what it feels like when “for better or for worse” starts feeling like mostly worse.
And we found the way through. Not around it. Through it.
For almost a decade now, we’ve coached couples through the hardest seasons a marriage can face. Betrayal. Resentment. Roommate syndrome. The silence that’s louder than any fight. Couples who sat down across from us and said “we’re only here because we promised the kids we’d try.”
We’ve watched those same couples hold hands again. Laugh again. Choose each other again.
That’s why we can’t shake this feeling: what happened for them should happen for you too.
He didn’t bring you two together so you could manage each other.
He made you different on purpose. The things that drive you crazy about each other right now? Those were designed to compliment you, not compete with you.
But here’s what nobody tells you. You can’t live out that design if you’ve never seen it. Most couples have never had anyone reveal WHO God designed each of them to be, and why He put those two specific designs in the same house.
That’s what we do.
When you finally see your spouse the way God designed them, everything changes. The fight you’ve been having for years suddenly makes sense. And once it makes sense, it can finally end.
Not to hand you a workbook and wish you luck.
Not to make you sit in a group of strangers, taking turns airing your dirty laundry.
Not to referee your fights or pick a side.
But to give you two experienced guides, in your corner, working YOUR specific marriage. Your history. Your wiring. Your fight. So you can stop circling the same mountain and finally move forward.
✓Your marriage is in real trouble and you’re done pretending it isn’t.
✓You’ve tried counseling, books, or church classes and walked away with more homework but no change.
✓At least one of you is still willing to fight for this. (Yes, even if your spouse is skeptical. Skeptical spouses are our specialty. They just need to see something real.)
✓You want a private, personalized path. Not a curriculum built for “couples in general.”
✓You’re willing to show up, do the work between sessions, and let us coach you honestly.
✗You’ve already decided it’s over and you’re looking for permission to leave.
✗You want us to “fix” your spouse while you watch from the sidelines.
✗You’re looking for someone to take your side instead of your marriage’s side.
We only take couples we believe we can genuinely help. That’s what the application call is for.
Most marriage programs toss you into a course portal, hand you a one-size-fits-all curriculum, and cross their fingers that something sticks.
This ain’t that.
You’re not a login. You’re not a seat in a seminar. You’re not “a” couple to us. We know you as a couple. Not just “any” couple.
Thirty-three years of marriage. Almost a decade coaching couples through the hardest issues a marriage can face. And every bit of it gets pointed at YOUR marriage, because your marriage doesn’t need generic advice. It needs precision.
We had quietly decided to just live in separate bedrooms until the kids moved out, then divorce. That was the plan. Then a friend told us about Chris and Tara and we gave the 90-Day Accelerator one last chance. The shift in the atmosphere of our home was so dramatic that our daughter came to us and thanked us for not giving up on our family. There are no words for that moment.— Jason & Emily
After 37 years of fighting and threatening to leave each other, we contacted Chris and Tara for help. I didn’t really think anything could help, but what did I have to lose at this point? Well, the breakthrough we got has been dramatic! We can actually come together as a couple now and offer help to our son and his wife. We can’t thank Chris and Tara enough!— Tom & Susan
We went around the same issue for seven years. We tried to get answers from every expert we could seek out. Then, in just a few sessions with Chris and Tara, the light bulb went on and everything finally made sense. This coaching has changed our lives.— Mike & Karen
This is the difference between white-knuckling it alone and having two coaches who know your marriage personally, walking with you every step for 90 days.
Twelve sessions over 90 days. That's nearly every single week, both of us with both of you. A husband's perspective and a wife's perspective in every session, so nobody is outnumbered and nothing gets missed. We work your real issues, not hypotheticals.
One for each of you. Because some things need to be said before they can be worked through together. A safe, judgment-free space to get honest about what's really going on inside you, so the couples sessions can go deeper, faster.
This is where we reveal who God designed each of you to be, and why He put your two designs in the same house. Once you see it, the fight you've been stuck in for years finally makes sense. Most couples tell us this one reveal was worth the entire 90 days.
Your assessments become your map. We build your entire 90 days around your specific wiring, your specific history, and your specific fight. No pre-recorded modules. No “week 4 is always communication.” We adjust as you grow, because a real marriage doesn't follow a curriculum.
Real marriages don't fall apart on a schedule. When the fight happens Tuesday morning, you don't wait until your next session to deal with it. You reach us directly and we help you solve real issues in real time. This alone changes everything, because you're never facing the hard moment alone again.
Work, kids, ministry, life. We get it. You book your sessions around your calendar, not ours. No rigid weekly time slot you have to rearrange your life for. The last thing a struggling marriage needs is one more source of stress, so we made getting help the easiest thing on your calendar.
We don't just coach your marriage. We cover it. Every week, we pray for you two by name. You will not fight this battle in your own strength, and you will not fight it alone.
A conversation, not a payment page
Every month you wait, the resentment gets one layer thicker. The distance gets one degree wider. The story you’re telling yourself about your spouse gets one chapter longer.
You’ve already seen where the current road leads. You don’t need us to describe it.
We only work with limited amount of couples at a time. Private coaching at this level doesn’t scale, and we won’t water it down. When those spots are filled, the next opening could be three months away.
So the first step isn’t a payment page. It’s a conversation.
Book your application call below. (You must both be on the call)
We’ll talk about where your marriage actually is, where you want it to be, and whether the Accelerator is the right fit. If it is, we’ll show you exactly what the next 90 days look like. If it’s not, we’ll tell you that too, and point you toward what will help.
No pressure. No scripts. Just an honest conversation about the most important relationship in your life.
One of you found this page. One of you is reading it right now.
Let that be the moment things turned.
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