Have you noticed that you and your spouse think differently? I bet you’ve realized your kids are wired differently too.
That’s not a problem—it’s a gift! In this fun and eye-opening parenting class, you’ll discover how God uniquely designed each person in your family.
When you understand yourself, your spouse, and your children on a deeper level, you can communicate more effectively, reduce stress, and create a home filled with peace, purpose, and connection.
Our mission is to empower parents like you with the essential tools and insights to foster deep, meaningful connections with your kids that can last a lifetime.
Learn a new way to speak so your children will want to listen.
“Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it”

Chris and Tara Borghese are passionate marriage and family coaches, engaging speakers, and co-founders of Marriage Insights Institute—a groundbreaking initiative transforming the way couples and families connect, communicate, and resolve conflict.
After nearly 30 years of marriage, parenting, and ministry, Chris and Tara discovered what many relationship experts overlook: most family conflicts don’t stem from a lack of love—but from a lack of understanding. By applying a proven, personality-based system, they equip couples and parents with the tools to reduce stress, gain clarity, and create lasting peace in their homes.
Initially focused on marriage, their training quickly expanded as couples began asking, “Do you have anything for parenting?”—because the results spoke for themselves. With three children of their own, Chris and Tara saw firsthand how the same communication strategies that restored marriages also transformed daily parenting struggles. Power struggles, emotional outbursts, and shutdowns became opportunities for connection—not conflict.
Now, they help families navigate everything from bedtime battles and homework meltdowns to screen-time limits and sibling rivalry—using insights that unlock each child’s unique wiring. Parents leave their training feeling equipped, empowered, and confident in how to lead their families with love and understanding.
Whether they’re speaking on marriage or parenting, Chris and Tara bring humor, hope, and highly practical tools that help families stop clashing and start connecting. Their message is simple, powerful, and life-giving: You can build a peaceful home—and it starts with understanding each other.
A few simple tweaks and watch stress, power struggles, and constant correction melt away.
Learn how your words shape your child’s world—and their future.
Speak your child’s unique language—and watch your relationship begin to flourish.
Learn how to identify your child's unique wiring using the predictable patterns of behavior, so you can parent them and not just the behavior.
Gain insight into why your child reacts the way they do and how to avoid common communication breakdowns.
Learn how to guide your child without yelling, bribes, or threats—while still maintaining healthy authority.
Build trust and open the door for your child to talk about anything—even the hard stuff.
Use words, tone, and timing that actually land with your child—reducing frustration and improving cooperation.
Learn how to de-escalate tense situations and create a calm, respectful home environment.
Walk away with simple, actionable strategies you can apply immediately to see lasting change in your home.
Whether you're parenting toddlers or teens, you’ll leave equipped, encouraged, and empowered to lead your family well.
“Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them!”
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